He’s a keeper

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I’m sure it comes as no surprise that this little cutey has his parents wrapped around his little finger. And I have a feeling that the rest of his family think he’s ok too.

Bubba Ted/Teddles/T-Rex, now 10-weeks old, is generally a pretty happy little fella and if he’s grumpy we can usually figure out why and help sort him out.

As for motherhood, well, I found the first two weeks pretty full on and, let’s be honest, rather terrifying (!), but since then it has just gotten better and better. Poor Ted has to put up with his mother being an obsessive ‘Googler’ and parenting-book reader who has to try to understand everything and find a solution to every problem. It seems I really am treating motherhood as I would any new ‘job’! I am starting to chill a bit more now I think, though Ben may disagree!

We are keeping busy and getting out of the house for mummy and baby pilates, mothers group and catch ups with friends. We’re also pounding the pavement a fair bit, particularly in the early evening when a walk in the pram is sometimes the only thing that will keep Ted’s crankiness (and mum’s too) in check.

It’s cool watching Ted constantly develop new skills, and I can’t wait until his ‘noisy smiles’ turn into real giggles!

Still baking

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Pineapple upside down cake Yep, still baking. Yesterday it was a pineapple upside down cake, something Ben has been telling me about his mum’s version of for many years. With that kind of pressure, I’d always stayed well away. Perhaps it was a hormone rush to the head, but yesterday I thought I’d have a go. And it was seriously divine. There were no comparisons to his mum’s cake – he knows to tread carefully at the moment ;) – but the look of pure joy on his face when he saw the cake and then inhaled a large piece was a sight to behold. Wish I had a photo of that. Now if only I could convince him to take the rest to work so it’s not here tempting me all day!

Can’t fight the waddle

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In a follow-up to last week’s (in retrospect, rather sickeningly!) positive post, I need to now say that I am officially VERY uncomfortable! Still remembering how blessed I am to be experiencing this and making the most of my time off, but also struggling with a stiff and achey pelvis that’s making sleeping and walking difficult, a constant need to pee and cramps that come and go, usually throughout the night. All good signs that we’re at the ‘business end’ I guess! Meanwhile Ben is being told to stay away from the ‘business end’ when the time comes, but that’s another story ;)

A few random observations from my time at home –

  • To all the full-time workers who can think of nothing more blissful than a daytime tele session – it gets very old after about a day. And Ellen DeGeneres is still very painful. I must say I am enjoying the reruns of All Saints, even though i should probably be avoiding all things involving hospitals + drama.
  • I can’t really say I’ve been overcome by a ‘nesting instinct’. I think the main reason i’m doing things like washing the outdoor furniture covers, baking and organising cupboards is that All Saints only goes for an hour and I have lots of time on my hands. Maybe it’s yet to come – I hope so, there’s still plenty of chores to do!
  • I am eating a lot of baked goods.
  • Everyone needs to update Facebook more, i.e. for my entertainment
  • Today I am off to the doctors for my weekly check-in, and then meeting Lou at Chermie for a preggie pedicure. Should be nice.

Update at 1.41pm: I now have pretty toes…and the doctor says bub’s head is ‘deeply engaged’ which I suppose explains all of the above!

Nesting time

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37 weeks pregnant

I’m a week and a half into maternity leave now and really, really enjoying it. While still working I felt pretty emotional at the prospect of finishing up, farewelling my great work buddies, and knowing it would be very different when I returned. But when the time finally rolled around, the overwhelming feeling of relief somewhat drowned out the other emotions. The final weeks and handover period were pretty hectic and my body was telling me it was time to go into my dark corner – or at least call it quits at work!

With just over 2 weeks until the little one is due, I’m trying to relish every minute of this very rare period of freedom. Fortunately I am feeling pretty good – quite a few aches and pains and a little someone drawing heavily on my energy reserves and making sleeping difficult, but I can’t complain. I’m not (often, anyway) at that ‘get it out of me’ stage, but ask me again in 2 weeks I guess! We are really itching to meet the little fella though :)

I’m enjoying lots of catch-ups, plenty of long baths and telly watching, and also ploughing through my to-do list – both for the bubs and general stuff like our tax returns and household things we never get around to.

It’s a rare feeling knowing that something huge and life-changing is going to happen very soon, but exactly when is completely unknown.